Monday, August 25, 2008

about forgiveness!!

well,i have been battling with the word forgivess lately.i know,forgiveness comes from God so i commit myself thinking all the aches and agony,the hurt that i feel deep inside will be gone.still,i wake up every morning with the same feeling,remorse...frustrations overwhelm me,and i find myself swinging in the same porch. this is what i have learnt about forgiveness......its something which comes from above,works within...a gradual process(it never gives instant gratification) and real forgiveness comes when we are moving ahead with our lives.so,when we forgive someone who hurt us,we shouldn't expect the pain to vanish immediately.....with time,it slowly fades away

11 comments:

Mizohican said...

Kan rawn opening ceremony zan a nge...

Thanx for registering once again. Will update as soon as I have free time.

Delhi doctor? A good fren of mine is a doc there too. Robert Lalmalsawma. Know him?

violette said...

thanks...well,umm..robert?heard of him.mi ka hre vak lo,delhi ka om na la rei lo plus coaching ka kal a,hectic schedule,hrethiams??

Mizohican said...

Actually come to think about it, there are a lotttt of Mizo doctors there in Delhi. Mahse kan culture habit ve a nia, mi pakhat hriat kan neih chuan midangin lo hre ve turah hian kan ring ringawt zela... :-)

Coaching? For PG degree or those USA-a practice theihna license exam thingie?

violette said...

no probs!coaching for pg degree...hei senior lutuk hma a,pg tih lo chuan pasal te kan la nei ve duh om sia :)

rinfelc said...

hahah... nia ti vat2 teh.. tih huk a chakm toh tlatzzz

violette said...

sword:tih huk lam chu a la hla ang tunah hrih chuan....zir poh kan la zir loh hi!!chutah tha thara zawn a la ngai zui

Unknown said...

forgive n forget is different thing violet, u wouldn't forget a spl person in ur life even if he hurts you, but that doesn't mean you didnt forgive, time will heal the pain but not the scar ; but the scar will only make you stronger

DaGGyLo said...

Nice blog.. Hooray! Mizo bloggers got a new writer.,eh??! Keep it up. :-)

Sekibuhchhuak said...

A dik khawp mai, mi kan ngaihdam kan tih pawh hian kan huatna / thinurna areh nghal mai chuanglo. i sawi ang khian zawi zawi a reh chia ni. Areh nghal mai loh avang khan kan ngaidam tak tak lo tihna pawh ani lo.

Forgiveness is a choice te pawh anlo tih thin tak kha.

Nice read :-)

Rka said...

illusionaire hi chu a lar lutuk a, miin an hriat ang vek tur hi a maw a ti thin a, lo hre thiam rawh :D

ziaktu naupang te si, a ziak thiam reuh, a thiannu hian thil a ziak peih lutuk a ti, thu leh hla lamah a pianphung en ai hian a ril phian. poem tawi te te a ziak peih lutuk, a broken heart lai phei chuan..... thats what close frenz said about her.

i've known her back in 2002(?) she is still a good fren of mine (OURS)

mizo te hian vantlang mit hmuhah ka ngaidam ti si hian kan rilru tak tak hian a lo ngaidam lo fo mai. Mi mit hmuha en chhuah kan tum lutuk vangah ka ngai

violette said...

@lalmuan:exactly!!

@daggylo:thanks for visiting....

@sekibuhchhuak:forgiveness is indeed a choice :)

@rka:in nu thusoi zong2 kha oih vek suh.